Who We Are

Real Moments. Honest Coaching. Practical Leadership.

Our Story

I used to think leadership was about image. The right words. The right look. Until one day, in a meeting, I threw my arms in the air and shouted, Woo hoo!” It wasn’t polished, but it was real. And that moment changed everything I understood about leadership.

That’s why I started 3 Things Consulting. To bring leaders practical coaching rooted in clarity, presence, and trust.

Jay Sternberg is the founder of 3 Things Consulting. For more than two decades, he led teams as a Partner at two global consulting firms. He’s coached leaders across industries, guided organizations through high-pressure transformations, and built trust with people at every level.

What defines Jay isn’t titles or positions, it’s his belief that leadership happens in the moments that matter most: the hallway conversations, the tough meetings, the times when presence outweighs perfection.

Integrity earns trust.

Clarity creates momentum.

Consistency builds safety.

People aren’t expecting perfection. They’re hoping for presence.
— Jay Sternberg